To The Boy Who Fell for the Girl Who Doesn't Care About You

She clearly doesn't care about you, not with the way she keeps playing games with your heart. It's obvious that you're no more than her newest toy, she keeps pushing your buttons, pressuring you because she wants to find out what makes you tick. Yesterday all she could do was smother you with affection and say I love you every ten seconds, yet today she acts like you're a nobody, as if your not even a blip on her radar; I mean she's flirting with other guys right in front of you, shushing you when try to interrupt them, but blowing up at you later because you didn't try to stop that boy from keep his grimy hands off of her, though at the time his hands were the only ones she wanted on her body.
You're confused most everyday because it seems as if you mean nothing to her, but there are some days, rare as they come, that it seems she really does care about you. Then out of nowhere she breaks it all off, says that she can't handle your indecisiveness and the fact that you treat her like complete and utter crap; there you are again, confused all over again. When she calls you back, begs you to come home to her, goes on and on about how she's changed for the better and things will be different now because she's realized you're what she's always wanted.
Don't fall for it, you make a change and end things with her once and for all, not only is it the best thing for you at this point, but you will also feel a sort of relief that is in no way regrettable. If she can't understand why you are doing what you're doing, then you can know that she was probably never a good fit for you in the first place.

A relationship needs to be placed on trust and understanding, and if even one of those things are missing that relationship is doomed before it even really begins. While yes, breaking up with her will be hard and it will most likely involve a lot of a heartache, in the long run it will be what's best for you and her. You, young boy, need a girl who will help you gain confidence, not rip it away from you. A girl who will support your decisions, but one who will also know when it's a good idea to talk you down from a crazy idea. A girl who will love exactly as you come, but also one who knows when it's time for you to make a dramatic or not-so dramatic life change.
You, sweet boy, need a girl who will put you above herself, who will bend and break to make sure that your needs come before her own, but also one who knows when it's time to put her foot down and say look I need this and I need you to be okay with it. You need a girl who will be your girlfriend just as much as she is your best friend and if she isn't really playing either side, then you are fighting a losing fight. A girl who is the exact opposite of what you need is a girl who will tear you down and break you apart consistently, and you deserve so much more than that.

When it all ends, and the last towel has been thrown in, walk away, don't say anymore because all that needs to be said has been said. Delete her number, don't answer her calls or pleading texts, just let her heal, but most of all let yourself heal. Don't let her back into your life until you're ready and it's okay to never be ready to have her back into your life because you were hurt by a girl who couldn't figure out what she wanted, even when all you wanted was her.
Believe me, sweetie, when I say that your person will come someday and that may be tomorrow, next week, next month or even years from now and that's okay. Just always remember that you are worth so much more than a girl who can't decide whether or not you're what she wants. Keep your head high, your shoulders square and your standards taller than the moon because someday you'll find the person who meets them in ways you never knew were possible.